A lot of times we think being single is a bad thing and we judge people who don't get into relationships before we actually know them but for this video I really wanted to talk about why I'm still single and why it's not a bad thing So if that's what you're looking for be sure to stick around for this video.
Hey girls and gays! welcome back to Rogerthat so today What I'm talking about is being single never having a relationship and why it's okay that you've never done that and if you want to hit that subscribe button and join this family be sure to Hit that notification bell as well because I do upload videos about the LGBT community Every single week and we're building community based on love here and we want you to join in getting back to my video today We're talking about being single and I know what you're asking yourself.
Why is this gorgeous man? Like myself having a video about being single and the fact is I'm not ashamed of it I'm not trying to hide it I talk about it a lot.
I talk about virginity a lot So I got my bisexuality a lot and I talk about things that a lot of people don't talk about I don't think I found the right person I don't think I found the person that I really connect with on an emotional and physical level That's the thing that I feel like a lot of people don't get Yes It's sometimes not okay to be judgy not okay to be so on a high voice that you decide to like Nobody your love life isn't something that you should settle on it's not something that you should just pick a person and get it over with or feel like there's a demand on you to do things that you don't want to do and I feel like as a society we like to pressure people in to feeling like if you're not in a relationship you're not good enough but the fact is, is if you're not in a relationship it means you're too good.
It means you're looking for that right person and looking for that person that no one else can be at the moment It's okay to take your time a little longer than someone else and oftentimes when I think about myself being single I think Does no one like me am I unlikable? Is there something wrong with me and when I start thinking stuff like that? I usually have to stop myself and I am that guy who is amazing and eventually one day.
I'll find the right person But when I get into that feeling of not being good enough or not Having those right qualities that people are looking for I have to take a step back and realize that My qualities are spent to me and I'm gonna flaunt them and I am going to do everything in my power To make it known that I am an amazing human being an amazing person other people don't see that about you or me They're missing out on a lot of great qualities and it's okay that they're missing out because the person that isn't missing out is YOU, you get to enjoy Yourself every single day of the week and that badass self of yours And that's something that no one else can take away from you and a lot of times when I talk about being single I think About all the time that I would have to spend with someone else.
I love having time to myself I love having time to make videos I love having time to do whatever I want to do and when you're in a Relationship a lot of that time is shared with someone else and a lot of times you kind of get distracted from your own personal goals and things that you're working towards because you're trying to work towards someone else's life and trying to fit into their life when You're single you get to control your life for yourself You get to make the decisions that are best for you and you get to keep working on yourself and that's something about being single That people in relationships can't always say they can't always say they are accomplishing their goals for themselves.
Yeah They have a motivator in someone else but sometimes that's not always a good thing You're working to please someone else and make someone else happy as well when in reality You should be making yourself happy and another thing about me.
It's actually something pretty funny I honestly feel like I'm a little bit too much to handle sometimes not in like a freaky I'm gonna jump in bed with you way But in like a I like to do things that a lot of people don't like to do I really like to have control of my life and just do things for myself When you're in a relationship that I'm gonna do this by myself I'm gonna do this even if you don't like it attitude isn't gonna work and I definitely have that attitude Where I don't want to be told what I can and I can't do and if someone's telling me I can't do it they're gonna be cut out of my life because I have no time for that and relationships really do seem like a lot of work and I know I work towards a lot of things in my life that I Want to get and a relationship was always kind of like that side thing where I was like, okay Eventually that will become something that I want to do there is so much work that you put into someone else that yourself starts being hindered because of that and I don't feel like that's Something that I want in my life at the moment I really want to work for myself and work towards my goals and things that I want to do not really worried about someone else I really care about people but being In a relationship just isn't for me nowadays Social media is where you meet people with social media is so consumed by swiping right? Swiping left based on looks based on things other than your personality and I feel like when you see me You don't really think of like the hot guy, but once you get to know me, you might kind of like me I feel like that's how most people are I don't really talk to me until they actually start hearing my Personality in real life and then they realize like I'm not that bad of a guy I'm not that ugly as I am So many people on the Bachelor if I want to find anyone I just need to go on The Bachelor and Find someone that way if I even get on they usually pick really hot guys and I'm just not in that same category so they probably will never let me on that show i think thats the only way I'm gonna find love where if I make it on like YouTube or something and I go to these YouTube Conventions even meet a fan maybe meet someone else like that being singles all I got being singles like my brand SINGLE, VIRGIN, BISEXUAL so if that's what you're looking for you came to the right channel If that's not you came to the right channel because you can live a life that you've never lived before By watching my videos never had to experience this, but you are right now So I want to thank you guys for watching this video.
Take your time find the right person believe in yourself and work for yourself That's what you need to do But if you want to subscribe to my channel be sure to hit that subscribe button and the notification bell for more videos every single Monday And Fridays and if you haven't watched some my other videos be sure to click them right there Because I do make a lot of videos that I think you might be interested in.
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