BISEXUAL MYTHS & FACTS! I LOVE THREESOMES!?


Just gays with one foot in the closet.

Bisexual.

Greedy.

Cheater.

Confused.

Attention seeker.

Doesn't exist.

Just a phase.

Promiscuous.

Hey guys! Welcome back to my channel, it is your girlDutchy and welcome to the first episode of topics of taboo with todays topic being bisexuality! In this video i'm going to be debunking thewildly outrageous myths surrounding bisexuality.

So if you guys are keen to hear some of theseridiculous comments then stay tuned! If you are new here then hello, welcome tothe fam! My name is Dutchy, I upload 2 videos everyweek on a Monday and a Friday at 4pm! If that's something that interests you thendon't forget to subscribe the link is down there and give this video a huge thumbs upif you find it interesting, valuable, knowledgable, funny?! whatever! and yeah, without further adieu, let's get into these myths! Alright guys so there are sooo many mythssurrounding bisexuality however I have narrowed it down to 7 to talk about briefly becausethere are just too many to talk about and this video would go on forever! Alright! First myth: bisexuals are just gays with onefoot in the closet.

Sure there are some people out there who mayidentify as bisexual and then later come out as gay which is completely fine.

When this happens, it can often lead to peoplethinking that bisexuality is like a 'gateway' sexuality.

The majority of people who identify as bisexualare 100% bisexual and will stay that way and these people are 100% emotionally and physicallyattracted to both sexes, both men and women.

But that's also not to say that once you comeout as something you have to stick to it.

Like there's no rule or guideline.

Sexuality is so fluid.

So what if someone identified as a bisexualwhen they were younger and when they got older their feelings changed or they realised thatthey only really had feelings for the same sex.

That's totally fine, bisexuality is very realand very valid.

We just like both sexes what is so hard tounderstand about that? Now the second myth is that bisexual womenare just straight women having fun.

If two straight guys were to have sex, I don'tthink society would be calling, would be playing that off as having fun, I think they wouldbe calling that gay – don't you? This myth also fully rejects the concept ofbeing bisexual which I think is really harsh.

I mean, straight girls who hook up with othergirls in the club for, in front of guys, for attention, I dunno, just cause they're sodrunk, for whatever reason.

I think girls that do that definitely addfuel to this fire and this myth and I could see why people would thereby think that.

In my teenage years growing up, in highschool, one of my best friends was gay and I fully supported her and her relationship with anotherwoman but back then like I was a fully straight girl, i'd never really done anything exceptfor kiss girls, but then that, I didn't feel anything for it.

But, when I thought I was straight I couldkiss a girl but I couldn't see myself in bed with a girl I couldn't see myself doing anythingelse with a girl.

Not that it disgusted me, it just didn't interestme at all.

To say that bisexual women are just straightwomen having fun, no I don't think so! Like, I feel as though 2 straight women probablywouldn't be having sex just for fun I think it has to be more than that.

I don't think people would take it that farjust for fun.

Number three is that bisexuals are more likelyto cheat and I think this, this is beyond ridiculous.

No, so wrong.

Anyone can cheat regardless of their sexualorientation or gender.

All it takes for you to cheat is to be a dickof a human.

I think this myth has to do with, if a bigirl is dating a guy and people sort of think alright well that's okay but she's only beinghalf satisfied like there's still this whole other part of her that's like wanting andlonging for women which no, a bi person is attracted to both men and women.

Get that through your head, we can be pleasuredboth by men both by women.

If we're with a guy, we want to be pleasuredby a guy, if we're with a woman, we want to be pleasured by a woman, we don't need bothat the same time, it just means we like both, we don't need both.

Number four is that bisexuals are half gayhalf straight.

Okayyy like what? I think people need to stop asking bisexualpeople what their percentage is.

They might have a gender preference but whatdoes it matter to you? But saying that someone's only 50% straight, 50% bi or 50% gay, like that's almost, it kinda sounds like you are saying someone canonly be half committed to someone, so like when a bi girl dates a guy, she can only give50% of her and the other 50% will still long for another female, no.

That is not true at all.

I am 100% bisexual.

I like men and I like women, there is no 50%on either side about it.

The fifth myth is that bisexuals have so manymore options because they're attracted to everyone! Wrong! Well okay statistically yes if I'm attractedto both men and women then yeah there are more people to be attracted to but it doesn'tmean that I am attracted to them.

Believe it or not bisexuals are not attractedto every single male or female that they come across.

Just like heterosexuals don't find every personof the opposite sex attractive either, it's the same.

I'm bisexual and i'm not attracted to everywoman I see or every man I see, it does not work like that.

As a heterosexual person, do you look at everyperson of the opposite sex and go damn, I wanna bang that.

No.

Well you might if you do, do you but no, mostpeople don't.

Just because i'm bisexual doesn't mean I lookat every male or female and go damn, I gotta get me some of that.

No I have standards and I have a type forboth genders.

I'm not attracted to absolutely every maleand female walking the planet, no absolutely not.

I feel as though a lot of the time this goesover peoples heads and as soon as someone hears the word bisexual, or someone comesout as bisexual people of the same gender around them kind of go gosh, oh my gosh she'schecking me out, she has a crush on me.

Ummm no hunny, don't flatter yourself that'snot how it works! The sixth myth is that bisexuals love havingthreesomes, I mean it just makes sense! If I like having sex with men and I like havingsex with women, surely i'd wanna have sex with them both at the same time! Ahhh no.

I'm sure some bisexuals love threesomes justas some heterosexual people love threesomes just as some other people from different sexualorientations like threesomes, for sure, definitely, it's out there! That's awesome, go you, you do you! But don't just assume that if a person isbisexual that first they're going to like threesomes and two they're going to have one.

No, never assume that of a bisexual person.

Only a minority of people in the world likehaving threesomes.

Last but not least, we can't ignore the highschoolgirls lockerroom, myth situation.

If there's a rumour going around that thereis a girl in the locker room getting changed with other girls around them getting changedthat might be into the same gender as them, that they're checking you out.

How egotistical can you be, just to thinkthat a girl likes the same gender that you are, that she'd be interested in you.

That's not an assumption you need to makeand it's probably not the case especially if you're someone that thinks like that! Thank you guys so much for watching the firstepisode of taboo topics, I hope you guys enjoyed, if you did then please make sure to like andcomment and I will see you guys in the next ep on Monday.

I'm doing a collab with another YouTuber andyeah we will be debunking some more myths of a different topic! So stay tuned to find out who this specialyoutuber is and I will see you guys in my next video! Bye!.

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